""I don't think it's the mother 's job to beat the children. It's the duty of the father. And, besides, he impresses them so much more."" (p. 54)
What do you think when you hear this? I think it is bad thing to determine beating is father's job. I also beating is not good idea. Although Dicky doesn't hear his parents easily. It can't be helped.
We discussed about this book. I was connector.
▼I connected to my childhood.
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I will talk about 2 points of view. About children and
parents.
First, I was fearful
that I'm beaten by my father. So I tried to not to break grass, to awake
sleeping father, and so on. Like Dicky, when everyone is child, they were
angered about their bad action, but the grower they are, they were angered
about their bad behave. Bad behave is like ignoring parents, not greeting to
parents, and so on. Our childhood's mind is more obedient than now.
Second, I also thought
that parents are not always like to beat their parents. In this story, Mrs.
Bendall consults her husband about beating their son. From this scene, we can
understand about it. Exactly, it is better than our mother that father beats.
It is because, children tend to see like “ father is strongest of my house. “
In this story, Dicky's father has pain in his mind and gives him sixpence. Actually, parents
think that beating is bad thing for their children. Although during childhood,
if parents don't beat them, they can't understand. It is easy for children to
understand that their action is bad. It can't be helped.
Then, I searched about
“how to scold children goodly” on Internet.
In this topic, it was
written that “After scolded, sure to apologize to children. It is important.”
This sentence
corresponds with this story. It means this behavior can tell to children that “
after doing bad action, sure to apologize.” We must be sample for children.
If I become parent in
the future, I want to consult my husband about “how to scold our child.”
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Have you ever experienced like that? It's nostalgic for me.
When you become a parent, how to involve your children? Let's think!
When we discussed this book. It was the first time to join Literature Circle.
It was difficult to connect this story to my experience. Although I did best.
I did discussion leader, too. It was fun for me.
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